Recently people are talking abt the OWC - obedient wife club.. which their main intention is to help reduce the divorce rate n helping to prevent all masalah sosial that related to sex or gender abuse. But somehow reading their article can't help but make me feel that they are actually creating a gender bias. They are blaming all those issue to women.
Emmm maybe I being naive here as I'm not a guy n not even married to one. But i really think the real reason behind all those sosial issue regarding rape because the guys wasn't taught properly how to respect a women.. Some of them might grow up seeing their mum being abuse by their father and give them the initial lesson that how husband-wife relationship should work. They never learnt or even see love between their parents...
And for divorce, I tot a marriage fell because no communication. When the other can't really tell the other party what they really feel, their thought etc. They slept to each other everyday but wake up just feeling like a strangers. they can't share their dreams..their fear.. I might be wrong but as much as people say guy n girl are different where guys only think abt sex but I do think they longing for the same thing. Companionship... emm .. maybe thats the reason i still single. the guys that im looking for is not real.. hahahaha I still in my "la la" land...
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OWC is portraying it in a negative manner....aku suke ade satu article yg aku baca of how we women, should help each other utk mengelakkan perkara2 yg tak baik dpd berlaku...maybe dekat sini (tak ingat dah sebenarnye):
http://zaharuddin.net/lelaki-&-wanita/288-aurat-wanita--apa-sudah-jadi-.html
or
http://zaharuddin.net/lelaki-&-wanita/497-bahaya-nafsu-lelaki.html
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