October 27, 2008

muhibah

I just come back from my friend depa open hse. Quite amazing .. the hse that he stay has been there for 55 years and he's the 3rd generation that stay there. Next to his hse is 2 chinese hse on the left another indian muslim on the right. both chineese neighbour know how to speak tamil and his father know hokkien. And they has been very close to each other for 3 generation...In my place, we used to be close with our chinese neighbour when i was kid. Visiting them in the evening ...but now when we grow up, the uncle/auntie stay with their son somewhere far, only come back once a while .. and we never close to their sons/daughter that stay in their hse replacing them ... so my niece will never closes to their kids so our relationship only last 1 gen saja.
Even for my real "auntie", we visting each other during festive and wedding or any important occassion like my bro convocation etc ..and my mum did call my auntie once a while but i wonder when all the old generation passed away, will this relationship stay?

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