memory

I think the culprit of moving on is the memory. Memory was suppose to be the bridge between human. When u are meeting with your long lost childhood friend at least 50% of the topic will be " ingat x masa dule". However when u moving on, you wasn't suppose to continue the bridge. You not suppose to remember those moment. You have to close it and create another bridge either friend bridge or enemy bridge. The hardest is to close it while having a memory. Doesnt matter either good or bad memory but you will think about it.If a good memory, you will thinking if you will ever has similar memory in future .. while if bad memory you will think where it goes wrong, why u cant see it. You blaming yourself to even start the bridge .. and at the end u are stuck in the loop of hatred and depression.
It will be easier if we have a switch to on/off the memory but then what the different between us and robot. Even pleo pun diorang nak kasik memory kat dia. I wonder what the different will you be when u move on while having your memory and when u lost your memory. Will you be different person. Experience does grow you... but having a past memory, will it bring anything? Does the past memory is important..? If you lost your memory, will you became the different person.. emm i dont know..